On our honeymoon, I caught my wife messaging the same ex boyfriend that she had recently cheated with one week before our wedding date.
Bill.
They were planning to meet up after we returned from our honeymoon.
They were discussing ways to send secret messages so that I would not see them in case she left her phone unattended.
It’s true, I was looking at her phone regularly now due to my own lack of trust in her. It was not right of me to invade her privacy.
Good or bad, my justification: She was deceiving me by hiding her affair and I felt the need to know what was really happening.