There were several occasions before we married where we would go to a local pub called Boom City. Niki and I would drink. I would have a few beers and she would drink Vodka. On several separate occasions Niki would go to the restroom and leave her phone on the bar top.
Her phone would would buzz and blink. From one foot away I could see it was a guy named Bill texting her.
On one occasion the bartender even noticed and said .. wow, Bill really wants to talk to your girl. That was quite embarrassing. I had suspicions but did not know they were meeting and having sex all the while we were dating and planning to get married.