In the summer of 2020, Niki was resting in bed drunk. This was her normal state.
So, I decided to take her kids to go get ice cream. We all went to Rita’s and got custards and cones. We picked up a container of ice cream for Niki too.
When we returned home, Niki exploded and said that I was spoiling her kids.
Niki said “you are not allowed to parent my kids ever again”
I said, “We just went to go get ice cream and brought you some back”
There was a very loud and disturbing argument for about 2 hours.
A small outing to simply go get ice cream turned into a huge escalation with screaming.
Of course, yet again her kids heard everything. Such a toxic environment for them. I called their father to come pick up Niki’s son. Niki’s daughter was ok to stay.