It’s 2020 just before Christmas. Niki was again very drunk after spending the evening out with her Hoe friend Miranda. She came home around midnight and began fighting with us.
Miranda was here for a while. Niki’s daughter and I confronted Miranda with bringing Vodka over to the house.
We told her again that Niki was having issues with Alcohol.
We both asked Miranda to leave.
After Miranda left, Niki exploded Yelling and escalating.
She took a swing at her daughter. I do not know if she hit her daughter or not but I think she did. Her daughter stated that her mom hit her, and I believe her daughter over Niki. I have lost trust in what Niki says by this time in our marriage. I do know that Niki swung at her and her daughter’s phone went flying into the air.
Niki threw a glass vase at me which shattered on the floor.
She knocked over the Christmas tree. Glass bulbs shattered all over the wood floor.
Niki began hitting the back of my head in sort of a rage I guess.
Her daughter called the state police who came to try and diffuse the situation. The police realized that she was very intoxicated. Niki was on parole for her DUI and the police could have taken her but decided not to do so.
This was a huge blow up and one of the more memorable incidents.
Niki said a few very disturbing things that night. One comment that she made was just sick of her. I will not go into details here but if asked directly, I’ll explain.
Niki was mad that I was siding with her daughter regarding Miranda being a bad influence. She said that I always side with her daughter. I would agree. I sided with her daughter. Her daughter was right. From Niki’s point of view, I can understand why she would be upset that I am siding with her daughter and not her but Niki was in the wrong. Parents and step parents should align and support each other. How can I support a drunk abusive situation?